Cards (11)

  • Extended Bowlby’s ideas that later love relationships should be predictable from knowledge of an individuals early attachment Style
  • They tested Bowlby’s hypothesis with the ‘love quiz’ which had nearly 100 questions published in the Rocky Mountain news which received 620 replies
  • 56% classified themselves as secure
  • 25% avoidant
  • 19% resistant
  • Securely attached adults:
    • Had certain beliefs (love is enduring)
    • Reported certain experiences (example mutual trust)
    • Were less likely to have been divorced
  • Secure adults
    • Relationships are positive
    • Trusts others and believe in enduring love
    • positive image of mother as dependable and caring
  • insecurely Attached adults:
    • Felt true love was rare; fell in and out of love easily
    • Found relationships to be less easy
    • Were more likely to be divorced
  • Resistant (anxious) adults
    • Preoccupied by love
    • Falls in love easily but have trouble finding true love
    • Conflicting memories of mother being positive and rejecting
  • Resistant (anxious) adults
    • Preoccupied by love
    • Falls in love easily but have trouble finding true love
    • Conflicting memories of mother being positive and rejecting
  • Avoidant adults
    • Fearful of closeness
    • Love is not durable nor necessary for happiness
    • Remember mother as cold and rejecting