during the phallic stage of psychosexual development (roughly between ages 3-6), a girl unconsciously cultivates a sexual attraction towards her father, viewing her mother as a competitor
In essence, the girl covets her father, yet recognizes that she lacks a penis, leading to the phenomenon Freud labeled as ‘penis envy‘ and a subsequent wish to be male
This girl then ostensibly resolves her dilemma by repressing her desire for her father and replacing her yearning for a penis with a longing for a baby
During this process, the girl purportedly blames her mother for her ‘castrated state,’ generating significant tension
In order to alleviate this tension, she then represses her feelings and begins to identify with her mother, thereby adopting a traditional female gender role