at the age of 13 a boy is considered responsible to fulfil the mitzvot in the Torah
years before a bar mitzvah a boy learns Hebrew so he can read a portion from the torah in the synagogue. a rabbi teaches him religious duties and importance of prayer
girls do not have such large ceremonies as bar mitzvahs because they do not have the same religious duties
orthodox jewish girls have a ceremony called a bat chayil (daughter of worth) when they are 12
reform jewish girls become bat mitzvah at the age of 12 and can also form part of a minyan