' be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, be subject to your husbands as you are to the Lord ... Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her ... Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ' Honour your father and mother ' ,,, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord '