It is hard to prove how much of your behaviour is innate/biological and how much is learned.
Margaret Mead – gender differences were learned through culture rather than being innate. E.g. Tchambuli tribe reversed gender roles from western expectations
primary socialisation
early stages of life
intimate prolonged contact with family
children learn through imitation. They see their parents as role models and learn what is (un)acceptable through trial and error.
Parents apply sanctions to behaviour as a form of social control.
Parsons – the family serves 2 essential functions: primary socialisation of children (teaching basic social norms and values) and stabilisation of adult personalities (providing emotional support).
peer groups
individuals learn about acceptable behaviour due to the desire to fit in (conformity)
peer groups consist of heirarchies and can be a source of rebellion (if they are deviant)
Becker - peer groups can label individuals as conformists or deviants
Lees – Teenage girls face a double standard where they are labelled negatively regardless of their sexual behaviour: “slags” if they are sexually active, or “drags” if they are not. Peer groups reinforce these norms through gossip and social exclusion.
education
formal curriculum: based on the language and culture of society and reflects its values
informal curriculum (hidden curriculum): norms and values you learn outside of lesson. e.g. detentions & achievements
Bowles & Gintis - education system is a giant myth making machine which brainwashed children through the hidden curriculum into the obedience and unquestioning attitude that they need in the world of work.
Becker - teachers labelling students negatively leads to a self fulfilling prophecy
media
argued to be the most important agent of secondary socialisation.
media represents different social groups which influences our views. e.g women are stereotyped in the media.
Mulvey - male gaze operates through cameras perspective, gaze of male characters in the film & gaze of spectators. this reinforces patriarchy in society
Bandura - violence in the media may encourage violence in society.
religion
uk society is becoming more secular - 2021 UK consensus: 37% no religion
UK norms, values, laws and morals are all based on christianity. e.g divorce, homosexuality, abortion.
Modood - 67% of Pakistanis and Bangladeshis saw religion as very important, compared to 5% of white british people
Individuals brought up muslim, hindu or Sikh may feel that religion is a very important influence on their norms
workplace
key agent of socialisation for adults (resocialisation - Goffman)
formal socialisation - dress code, behaviour, etc. This is enforced by formal sanctions, such as warnings/being fired, or positive sanctions: pay rises/promotions
informal socialisation - making clear what is acceptable. e.g someone sucking up to the boss - people give them the silent treatment
waddington - 'canteen culture' describes the norms and values that people who work in an organisation are socialised to accept. Certain language or behaviour become the norm.