poem is told from the perspective of a soldier's wife - deals with idea of PTSD and its impacts on the soldier and those around him/her
Armitage served as a peace keeper in the Bosnian war before being discharged due to his depression and injuries
structure
poem is organised into couplets - initially these couplets rhyme (“first phase… intimate days”), perhaps reflecting the couple’s harmony when they were first reunite
However, as the poem progresses the rhyme scheme falters, reflecting the increasingly disjointed nature of their relationship