each partner is satisfied if they are getting more out of the relationship than they expect based on previous experience and social norms.
Factor 2 - Comparison with alternatives
romantic partners ask themselves 'Are the alternatives more rewarding or less costly?'.
Includes other relationships or no relationship at all
Factor 3 - Investment
anything you would lose if the relationship were to end.
two major types of investment
intrinsic investment
extrinsic investment
Intrinsic investment
resources you put directly into a relationship
can be tangible (money, possessions)
can also be intangible (energy, emotion, self-disclosures)
Extrinsic investment
resources that didn't previously feature in the relationship but are now closely associated with it.
e.g. a car, mutual friends, shared memories.
Satisfaction vs commitment
commitment = main psychological factor causing people to stay in relationships.
satisfaction = contributory factor.
helps explain why dissatisfied partners stay in a relationship.
committed as they have made an investment.
Relationship maintenance mechanisms
accomadation
willingness to sacrifice
forgiveness
positive illusions
ridiculing alternatives
Strength -> Le + Agnew meta analysis
reviewed 52 studies, included 11,000 pps, 5 countries
satisfaction, comparison with alternatives, investment, all predicted relationship commitment
greater commitment -> couple was more stable, lasted longer.
true for men + women, homosexual and heterosexual couples.
Counterpoint -> meta analysis
Results were correlational.
Cannot establish a cause and effect. Could be the opposite way around.
Strength -> Explains abusive relationships
explanation of relationships that involve intimate partner violence
Rusbult + Matrz
studied domestically abused women at a shelter and found those most likely to return to their partner had made a greater investment with fewest attractive alternatives
dissatisfied in relationships, but still committed.
Limitation -> oversimplifies investment
viewed in simplistic one dimentional way.
more to investment than just resources already put in.