Duck’s phase model

• What is the first stage of Duck's phase model of relationship breakdown?

  Intra-psychic phase
• What happens during the intra-psychic phase?

  The person admits dissatisfaction and weighs pros and cons
• What threshold is reached in the intra-psychic phase?

  "I can't stand this anymore"
• What is the second stage of Duck's phase model?

  Dyadic phase
• What are the possible outcomes in the dyadic phase?

  Determination to break up or desire to repair
• What threshold is reached in the dyadic phase?

  "I would be justified in withdrawing"
• What is the third stage of Duck's phase model?

  Social phase
• What occurs during the social phase?

  The breakup is made public to friends and family
• What is the significance of the social phase?

  It marks the point of no return in the breakup
• What threshold is reached in the social phase?

  "I mean it"
• What is the fourth stage of Duck's phase model?

  Grave dressing phase
• What happens during the grave dressing phase?

  Both sides construct their version of the breakup story
• What is the purpose of the grave dressing phase?

  To signal the end of the relationship and readiness for new ones
• What threshold is reached in the grave dressing phase?

  "It's now inevitable"
• How can Duck's model be applied in couples therapy?

  • Shift focus to positive aspects in intra-psychic phase
  • Communicate dissatisfaction in dyadic phase
• What are the cultural biases in Duck's phase model?

  • Collectivist cultures often have arranged relationships
  • Relationships are harder to end due to family involvement
• What is a limitation of Duck's phase model?

  • Describes breakdown process but lacks explanation for causes
  • Limited usefulness without understanding underlying reasons
• What could be a possible essay question regarding Duck's model?

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