Social norms are different for each generation and every culture. Only few behaviours are considered universally 'abnormal' on the basis they breach social norms
Average IQ is set around 100 and 68% of people have an IQ around 85-115. 2% of people score below 70 and this leads to the theory they have intellectual disability disorder which is defined as 'abnormal'
Intelligence can be reliably measured. Normal distribution is when people's scores cluster around the average and the further below/above the average you go, there will be fewer people
Statistical definition states any relatively usual behaviour can be seen as 'normal' and thus, behaviour that is different can be be regarded as 'abnormal'