Individuals seek out partners whose social desirability equals their own- must first assess their own value in the eyes of a potential romantic partner and then select the best available candidates who would be most likely to be attracted to them
Opting for partners of similar social desirability to themselves they can maximise their chances of a successful outcome
Matching and physical attractiveness
Referred to those who choose similarphysicalattractiveness to be realistic choices- each individual is influenced by the chances of having their affection reciprocated
Realistic choices include a number of different factors- what person desires, whether the other person wants him/her in return or whether other desirable alternatives are available for either of them
In real life- mating within their league whether it is beneficial or not
(Halo Effect)
Perceive more attractive people in a more positive light
Dion-attractivepeople were consistently rated as more kind, strong, successful and sociable than less attractivephotographs
As we believe this about attractive people it could lead us to be more positive towards them leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy
Key study: Walsier procedure
Advertised a computer dance- Uni of Minnesota
177 males and 170 females were randomly selected
4 student accomplices surreptitiously rated each of them for physical attractiveness
Ppts were asked to complete a lengthy questionnaire and told that the data gathered from these questionnaires would be used to allocate their idealpartner for the evening of the dance
Pairing was completelyrandomised- during the intermission ppts were asked to complete a questionnaire about their dates with a follow-up questionnaire distributed 6 months after the dance
Key study: Walsier findings
Didn’t support matching hypothesis
Once participants met their dates and regardless of their own physicalattractiveness they responded more positively to physically attractive dates and were more likely to subsequently try to arrangedates with them if they were physically attractive
Other factors didn’t affect the liking the dates or any subsequent attempts to date them
Complex Matching
Sprecher and Hatfield: people come to a relationship offering many desirablecharacteristics of which physicalattractiveness is only 1
Person may compensate for a lack of physical attractiveness with other desirable qualities- charming personality, kindness, status, money which is known as complex matching
People are able to attract partners for more physically attractive than themselves by offering compensatory assets
Research support for sex differences in the importance of physical attractiveness
Meltzer: objective rating of wives’attractiveness were positively related to levels of husbands’satisfaction at the beginning of the marriage and remained that way over at least the first 4 years of marriage
In contrast- objective ratings of husbands’physical attractiveness were not related to wives maritalsatisfaction either initially or over time
Matching may not be that important in initial attraction
Taylor- study of online dating patterns they found no evidence that dates’ decisions were driven by a similarity between their own and potential partner’ physicalattractiveness
Evidence of an overallpreference for attractive partners
People dont take their own physicalattractiveness into account but aim for someonemoredesireable
Implications of sex differences in the importance of physical attractiveness
If physical attractiveness plays a strongerrole in men’slong term relationship than women's, then women may experience increasedpressure to maintain their physicalattractiveness to successfully maintain a longterm relationship
Physical attractiveness is not the onlypredictor of marital satisfaction for a man
Both men and women also desire partners who are supportive, trustworthy and warm and those whose partnersdemonstrate these qualities tend to be more satisfied with theirrelationships
Research Support for the matching hypothesis
Used photos of 197 couples.
Photos of each partneralone were used so eachperson could be judged individually.
Eightjudges rated the individualphotos according to attractiveness
Found that photos of couples were consistently given a similarattractiveness rating compared to randomlymatchedpairs
Completed meta-analysis including 18studies on the matching hypothesis containing 1644couples and found an overallpositivecorrelation in the attractivenessrating of couples