PerDev

• PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP - a form of relationship closely linked to a person and which can only be important to another person
• Kinds of Personal Relationship

  ATTRACTION - a force that unites people and can grow into an attachment which eventually leads to commitment.
• Kinds of Personal Relationship

  IMPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP - commitment to an organization like a business entity, a principle or purpose.
• ATTACHMENT STYLES

  AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT - when primary caregiver is cold and detached, and even unresponsive to the child’s needs.
• ATTACHMENT STYLES

  SECURE ATTACHMENT - when all the emotional needs of an infant are met with a sense of security.
• ATTACHMENT STYLES

  AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT - It is when primary caregiver is cold and detached, and even unresponsive to the child’s needs.
• ATTACHMENT STYLES

  ANXIOUS-AMBIVALENTATTACHMENT - when the primary caregiver is consistent in terms of presence and meeting child’s emotional needs
• ATTACHMENT STYLES

  SECURE ATTACHMENT - when the primary caregiver is most of the time present and available.
• ATTACHMENT STYLES

  ANXIOUS-AMBIVALENT ATTACHMENT - When exposed to this attachment, the child may develop separation anxiety or may have mixed feelings between hesitancy and commitment when entering into meaningful relationship.
• PHASES OF LOVE

  ATTACHMENT - Is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space
• PHASES OF LOVE

  LUST - It is the urge or desire that drives u to partake in sexual activity.
• PHASES OF LOVE

  ATTRACTION - Is described as the love-struck phase
• PHASES OF LOVE


  When a couple in love and decides to continue with the relationship, they enter the attachment stage where long lasting commitments are exchanged, and may lead to raising a family.
• FACTORS BEHIND ATTRACTION AND LIKING

  TRANSFERENCE EFFECT - There are times we meet people who we immediately like or dislike. This is when these people remind us of someone IN THE PAST who has affected our sense of self and our behaviour.
• FACTORS BEHIND ATTRACTION AND LIKING

  SIMILARITY - It is a strong factor in friendship and in the selection of a mate because it promotes trust, empathy, intimacy, and long lasting relationship.
• FACTORS BEHIND ATTRACTION AND LIKING

  PROPINQUITY - We often develop a sense of familiarity with people who live close to us, work with us, or go to school with us, which leads to liking them more.
• FACTORS BEHIND ATTRACTION AND LIKING

  PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS - It is a major factor in liking someone, It connotes positive health and reproductive fitness which are both essential to human survival.
• FACTORS BEHIND ATTRACTION AND LIKING

  RECIPROCITY - We like people who like us back. The more we are liked by someone we equally like,the morewe behave in way that promote mutual feeling or liking.
• FACTORS BEHIND ATTRACTION AND LIKING

  PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS AND TRAITS - People get attracted to emphatic persons, who exudes warm, sympathy, and optimistic, socially competent persons, who are good communicator and enjoy communications.
• LOVE AND INTIMACY - Love is a feeling of deep affection, passion, or strong liking for a person or thing.
• ROBERT STERNBERG’ S TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
• TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

  INTIMACY - It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.
• TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

  PASSION - it is the intense state of being that drives and consumes a person to pursue an interest, a vision, or a person
• TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

  COMMITMENT - an act of deciding to consistently fulfil and live by agreements made with another person, Entity, or cause, and where the values of integrity and respect serve as a guide to one’s behaviour and thinking.
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  LIKING - intimacy alone
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  COMPANIONATE LOVE - intimacy + commitment
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  INFATUATION - passion alone
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  EMPTY LOVE - commitment alone
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  ROMANTIC LOVE - intimacy + passion
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  CONSUMATE LOVE - intimacy + passion + commitment
• 8 FORMS OF LOVE

  FATUOUS LOVE - passion + commitment
• VARIABLES AFFECTING COMMITMENT

  TEMPTATION OF ALTERNATIVE PARTNERS - it is noted that the fewer options a party in a relationship gets exposed to, the lesser the possibility of breaking the relationship.
• VARIABLES AFFECTING COMMITMENT

  ACCUMULATION OF ALL REWARDS OF THE RELATIONSHIP - considered as the most important determinant of satisfaction in a relationship.
• VARIABLES AFFECTING COMMITMENT

  INVESTMENTS MADE BY THE COUPLE IN THE RELATIONSHIP – an important variable in maintaining commitment.
• SOCIAL RELATIONSHIP - how we interact and behave with other people, and how they interact and behave with us.
• SOCIAL INFLUENCE - are things that change people’V behaviour, belief, and attitude as a result of an action of another person or group.
• LEADERSHIP THEORY

  TRAIT THEORY - there are certain personality traits inherent in and suited for all leaders such as decisiveness, persistence, high level of self confidence and assertiveness, among others.
• LEADERSHIP THEORY

  BEHAVIORAL THEORY - leadership is a learned behaviour, and that leaders are defined according to certain types of behaviour they exhibit.
• LEADERSHIP THEORY

  SITUATIONAL THEORY - assumes that there is no one style of leadership and that leadership behaviour is based on the factors present in a situation, and usually takes into consideration how followers behave.
• LEADERSHIP THEORY

  PARTICIPATIVE THEORY - is the opposite of an autocratic leader, a leader involves other people in making common decisions.