FSC contexts, we consequently embrace as our personal standards and ultimately determine our way of life.
1st Issue: The Clash between Teenager’s Independence and Parents’ Overprotection (Family Context)
Social Analysis
adolescents want to distinguish themselves
2nd Issue: The Clash between Social Conventions and Personal Convictions (Community Context)
Social Analysis
Kohlberg's Conventional Stage of Moral Development, a person might be strongly conditioned to act or do things by the group's standards to satisfy the need to fit in.
3rd Issue: The Clash between Lasallian Standards and Other Schools’ Standards (School Context)
THEOLOGICAL REFLECTION
Family: Cradle of Human Values
school: Inculcator of Human Values
Community: Promoter of Human Values
Family: Cradle of Human Values
family is the original cell of social life
the family is “the primary place of ‘humanization' for the person and society” and the “cradle of life and love.”
core values: Spirit of Faith, Zeal for Service, and Communion in Mission
Religion: Religious beliefs significantly influence a man's identity, as they dictate their life approach and provide a sense of purpose beyond material happiness.
Friends: As a social being, a man can't isolate himself from the world and live completely alone.
Media: Technology and creativity have led to numerous ways to express oneself. Every community is called to be an instrument of liberation and promotion of the poor.
Nation: A nation is identified by the social values it upholds. By social values, we mean the value philosophy of a nation that provides the general guidelines for the behavior of the citizens.
Contributed to value formation of St. John Baptist De La Salle:
Adrien Nyel
Nicholas Roland and Sister Louise
His Fellow Seminarians
His Childhood Friends
Adrien Nyel who invited him to establish gratuitous schools prepared our Founder to be the main frontliner of the Lasallian mission. This made him a good, service-oriented, and pro-poor leader.
Nicholas Roland and Sister Louise, his spiritual guides, advised him to bring to prayers his worries in life. This increased his prayerfulness.
His fellow seminarians collaborated with him in organizing sports for the abandoned children of the city. Once the games ended, they would bring the boys into the parish church and teach them their catechism.
His childhood friends, the children of the workers in their vineyard, exposed him to their poor plight which led him to appreciate simple things in life.
MenelaosApostolou and DespoinaKeramari (2020), a friendship evolved in smallcommunities of 100 or fewer. Social forces were more critical for group survival in hunter-gatherer times.
Cooperation and collaboration is needed in friendship.
Loneliness is a growing problem
Six Factors That Block Friendship:
Introversion
Fear of rejection
Pragmatic reasons (disability)
Low trust
Lack of time
Too picky
Friendship existed even before the time of Christ
Aristotle, a well-known philosopher, beautifully describes a friend as a “single soul in two bodies.”
friendships of utility, which are based on the potential benefits
friendships of pleasure, where straightforward enjoyment comes from the friendship
friendships of virtue, in which the friends share a desire for virtue and do good deeds for one another, guiding them along the path of virtue. The final friendship comes the closest to what Christians would consider the ideal.
3 TYPES OF FRIENDSHIP:
Friend of utility
Friend of Pleasure
Friendships of Virtue
Friendship is a reflection and result of God’s inexhaustible outpouring.
Friendship with God is the basis of harmony with the self and harmony with creation
Friendship with God as the protological and eschatological human state
Interpersonal friendship as the blossoming of charity, leading to spiritual communion.
Friendships of Characters in the bible
David and Jonathan
Ruth and Naomi
Jesus and His disciples
Stages of Ministry Mentor Mentee/Apprentice
I do - you watch
I do - you help
You do - I help
You do - I watch
You do - others watch
The term “friendship” is often used as a defining characteristic of the Christian fellowship depicted in Acts 4:32-35.