Duck (2007) suggests the ending of a relationship is a series of phases where both partners reach a threshold, each one changing the perception of a relationship
Some reasons for relationship breakdown: pre-existing doom (incompatible from the start), mechanical failure (compatible from the start but no longer function together), sudden death (traumatic event, cheating, etc.)
What is the intra-psychic phase?
When partners begin to feel dissatisfied with their relationship, they enter a cognitive process thinking about their feelings and problems
Alternatives are considered as well as solutions, but issues are discussed and if problems are great enough then they move onto the next stage
"I can't stand this anymore"
What is the dyadic phase?
When the other partner becomes involved and they have confrontations about complaints characterised by anger and hostility
With more self-disclosure, repressed emotions are expressed and if this dissatisfaction is not resolved they move onto the next stage
"Id be justified in leaving"
What is the social phase?
Break-up is made public to friends and family and some may choose sides - social implications are negotiated like assets, childcare, responsibilities, etc.
"I really mean it"
What is the grave dressing phase?
Ex-partners organise their post-relationship lives publicising their own account - employ self-serving attribution bias and creating their own positive narrative of the story that they can live with
Can involve gossip, which is important to retain social credit
"It's now inevitable"
Why is Rusbult's model of investment incomplete?
Rollie and Duck (2006) suggested the original model is oversimplified, adding the "resurrection phase" - ex-partners turn their attention to future relationships using the experiences from the relationship that just ended
Make it clear that progression from one phase to another is not inevitable and people can return to earlier stages - any order not linear
Shows model does not account for dynamic nature of breakups
Why is Rusbult's model descriptive rather than explanatory?
Only focuses on the breakdown of a relationship without how or why it got to that point which other hypothesis' acknowledge
Felmlee'sFatal Attraction Hypothesis argued the cause of breakdown can be the attractive qualities that brought the couple together e.g. being funny can be seen as never serious later
Original model lacks depth in explaining the root dissatisfaction
How is Rusbult's model culturally biased?
Moghaddam (1993) - relationships in individualist cultures are generally voluntary and come to ends quite frequently
In collectivist cultures they tend to be obligatory, less easy to end, involve wider family, and can even be arranged with little involvement of the partners
Weakens generalisability of Duck's model as it isn't widely applicable beyond Western and individualistic cultures
What are some methodological issues with Rusbult's model?
Research is retrospective - participants give their experiences after the relationship has ended, meaning recall may not be accurate or reliable and earlier stages can be distorted
Researchers are reluctant to study early stages fearing it may hasten the end of a relationship that otherwise could've been rescued