Tasks that arise during certain periods in your life
Any concern that hinders compliance with or accomplishment of these tasks may lead to an inability to perform tasks associated with the next period or stage of development in life
Adjust to new physical changes
Puberty brings many physiological changes and the discomforts that accompany these changes may affect self-esteem
Adjust to new intellectual abilities
With the transition in cognitive skills from concrete to abstract thinking during adolescence, one has to adjust within oneself
Adjust to higher cognitive demands in school
The educational curriculum is basically designed to match with developmental tasks at all levels
Adjust to higher demand for verbal communication skills
Adolescents are expected to learn proper expressions and tactfulness in communication, which they will use more when they become adults
Develop personal sense of identity
Adolescents have to establish a sense of identity apart from their parents. They have to recognize their uniqueness and capabilities to do things and slowly establish their own name. Answering the questions “What does it mean to be me? Or Who I am?”
Establish vocational goals
Adolescents consider which career or vocational goals to take and how they may achieve them. They are now able to answer the question “What do you want to be when you grow up?”
Establish emotional and psychological independence from parents
Adolescents need to establish independence and move away from childhood attachments and the security and safety of having their parents with them
Develop stable Peer relationships
Stable peer relationships start with stable individuals. In this stage, encounters with peers may lead to intense emotional experiences. Thus, adolescents need to learn the art of controlling emotions and being tactful in expression
Manage Sexuality
Adolescents need to manage their sexuality, that is being male or female, and liveuptotheexpectations and norms set by family, culture, society, and spirituality. With the tendency to express themselves at random, they could be at the same time inhibited due to fear that they might send wrong signals and be judged by others
Adopt a personal value system
Parents provide their children guidance in identifying right and wrong. Eventually, the adolescents’ desire to become independent may lead them to reconsider parental values especially when these are in conflict with those of peers and society
Adolescents becoming responsible
1. Focus on school tasks such as joining classes, clubs, doing assigned homework
2. Relate properly with teachers and classmates
3. Eat the right kinds of food
4. Exercise often
5. Avoid drugs
6. Get enough sleep
7. Visit the doctor regularly to get medical advice related to health and wellness
8. Be neat and tidy and observe good hygiene
9. Maintain a positive attitude
10. Be honest with your parents and relate with them properly
11. Read more books or browse the web to learn about becoming responsible adolescents
Adolescents do not progress through these multiple developmental tasks separately. At any given time, adolescents may be dealing with severaltasks
Earlyadolescence (12-13 yrs old)
Marked by rapidphysicalgrowth and maturation. The focus of the adolescents’ self-concepts is often on their physicality and acceptability. A period of intense conformity to peers. Adolescents strive to get along well with peers and their worst fear is to be seen as “different” by them
Middle adolescence (14-17 yrs old)
Marked by the emergence of new thinking skills. The intellectual world of the young person is greatly expanded. Concerns are more directed toward peers while the desire for psychological independence from parents intensifies. Psychological energies are directed toward preparing for adult roles and making preliminary decisions about vocational goals
Lateadolescence (18-21 yrs old)
Marked with the final preparations for adult roles. The developmental demands often extend into the period known as young adulthood. Confidence and sense of identity are more established and secure. Clearly identified social role and readiness to take on the challenges of adulthood
General challenges of middle and late adolescence
Sexual relationships
Peer adjustment
Intellectual maturation
Vocational choice
Common problems of Filipino adolescents
Attitudes and behaviors toward sexuality and sexual relationship
Academic concerns
Peer acceptance
Health and nutrition
Developing or regaining self-esteem
Role confusion
Material poverty
Parents working abroad
Career choice
Depression
Managing the demands on adolescents
1. Choose your friends wisely
2. Join youth groups and organizations
3. Stay close to home (if possible)
Prudent
Highly necessary to be prudent and vigilant in your engagement with others
Joining youth groups and organizations
Provides venues where you can share and enhance your skills, talents, capabilities, and potentials
Stayingclosetohome
Western culture lets adolescents be independent and leave at age 18, but strong Filipino family ties keep family members together until they turn adolescents and adults, and in some cases, until they marry and have children
Engaginginhealthyandfunactivities
At the stage of exploration and finding your own identity, part of it is the higher tendency to be more adventurous and experiment on many activities
Focusing on schools and studies
While the parents’ primary responsibility is to provide for your education, your primary responsibility is to take your studies seriously
IncludingGodinyourlife
Even if you feel that you have achieved many things in your adolescent life all by yourself
Concepts on how to become lovable
Be light
Love yourself
Show kindness to everyone
Laugh at yourself
Show affection
Be real
Have integrity
Barrie Davenport: '2015'
Stress is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances
Stress
A physical, chemical, or emotional factor that causes bodily or mental tension and disease. It occurs when you feel you may have lost the capacity to manage your life and its circumstances
Stressor
A chemical or biological agent, environmental condition, external stimulus, or an event that causes stress to an organism
External Stressors
Changes in temperature (heat or cold)
Stressful psychological environments such as classroom conditions or abusive relationships in school (bullying)
InternalStressors
Physical ailments such as infection or inflammation
Psychological problems
Adolescents experience stress primarily from homework, school, grades, tests, college, finals week, parents and family expectations, social life, time management, lack of sleep, multitasking, sports, and other factors
Vulnerability
Level of susceptibility or tendency to be affected by stressors
Sources of stress for adolescents
School demands and frustrations
Negative thoughts and feelings about themselves
Changes in their bodies
Problems with friends and/or peers in school
Unsafe living environment/neighbourhood
Separation or divorce of parents
Chronic illness or severe problems in the family
Death of loved one
Moving or changing schools
Taking on too many activities or having very high expectations
Family financial problems
Internal mechanism
Identifies and automatically perceives specific situations as threatening, and the body responds through physical symptoms like increased heart and breathing rates, cold hands and feet, upset stomach, and a sense of dread
Techniques to cope with stress
1. Exercise and eat healthy food
2. Avoid caffeinated drinks, alcohol, drugs, and tobacco
3. Learn relaxation exercises
4. Practice responding properly to stressful situations