Gilligan (1982) suggested that moral decision-making is guided by differing principles in men and women
the 'ethic of justice' is the principle more commonly seen in males - pertains to values of equality and fairness and requires a detached outlook to avoid bias.
Claimed that females use the 'ethic of care' to guide their decision making. This principle related to interpersonal relationships and nurturing and supporting those in need.
in terms of destructive obedience, one might expect males to be more obedient due to their feelings of obligation to an authority figure, whereas females may be less obedient due to their desire to support the person being harmed
in Milgram's study, males may be more swayed by the apparent scientific goals of the research which was supposedly for the 'greater good' - whereas females may have been more concerned about the learner.