3. Coin (for the ferryman Charon) is placed on the mouth
Prothesis (laying out) (Greece)
1. Lasted for 2 days
2. Family + friends would pay their respects
3. A bowl of water was placed outside so people could wash themselves on leaving (religiouspollution)
4. Women would play a big role in the lament (expression of grief) - cut their hair, wear shabby black clothing, beat their chests
Ekphora (carrying out) (Greece)
1. Funerary procession to the burial ground
2. Happened at dawn on the 3rd day
3. Family (men, women + children) would accompany the body
4. An aulos (flute/pipe) player also accompanied them
Burial (Greece)
Outside the city → avoiding spread of religious pollution and disease
Body buried or (more often) cremated
Family may place more gifts aiding the dead on their journey
If family was wealthy enough, a stele may have been arranged
Stele
A slab of stone carved with a pattern/image as a gravestone, also preserved the memory and honoured the loved one
Cremation (Greece)
1. A pyre was built (heap of logs for body)
2. Bones + ash from the middle of the pyre, in urn, given to the family
3. Urn was placed in a grave/shrine
Sacrifice (Greece)
A sacrifice would be performed after the burial → blood of the animal was released onto the earth as an offering to Hades and Persephone
Mourning (Greece)
1. 30 days
2. Required days family had to visit: 3rd, 9th, 13th
3. After that the family visited on a yearly basis
Anthesteria (3 days) (Greece)
1. Day 1: wine from previous years opened, libations poured to Dionysus
2. Day 2: drinking contests, libations on ancestors graves
3. Day 3: dedicated to the dead; offerings made to Hermes; no food eaten by the living; dead returned to underworld
Genesia (1 day) (Greece)
1. Athenians decorated ancestors grave with ribbons
2. Offerings and food and blood sacrifice to honour the dead
Burial (Rome)
Mostly same as Greeks
The wealthy → buried in tombs by roads to allow passers to pay respects
Burial clubs (Rome)
Pay a monthly fee to join the club, club would pay for funeral ensuring their death wasn't forgotten, members may be buried in a clubtomb/burialground, clubs also met for meals and gatherings, providing social connections
Preparation (Rome)
Same as Greeks, except relative would kiss the (dead) person
Funeral (Rome)
1. Took place 8 days after death
2. Variety of people → flute + horn players, male + female relatives
3. Wax masks made of the dead relatives and brought to wear during family funerals → symbolising the appearance of deceased into afterlife by ancestors
4. Some families paid for professional mourners → increasing importance
Parentalia (9 days) (Rome)
1. Day 1: public sacrifice by VestalVirgins
2. Day 2-8: gift offerings given at the ancestors tombs'
3. Day 9: family meal - reconciliation
Lemuria (3 days) (Rome)
Midnight ritual every night: 1. Make sign, 2. Purification, 3. Throw black beans over shoulder without looking, 4. Say incantation9 times, 5. Purification and beating of bronze, 6. Order spirits to leave, look back