When the play begins, Othello and Desdemona have eloped, unbeknownst to her father. They fell in love during Othello's visits to her house to speak with her father, as Othello entertained Desdemona with tales of his life in foreign lands. While others disapprove of their union because of Othello's race and outsider status, it is one of the reasons Desdemona loves him. Initially, Othello is a devout husband, worshipping Desdemona as well as respecting her as an individual. He allows her more freewill and voice than was typical of the time. In addition, he has absolute faith in her, and cannot imagine a time when he won't love her. However, the unknown territory of Cyprus and everything it brings with it adds strain to their relationship. One main conflict in the opening acts is their attempts to consummate their marriage. Repeatedly, they are denied time alone together, showing the general objection to their relationship still impacts them. The chaos that erupts and Cassio's subsequent demotion adds more tension to their relationship, as their contrasting perspectives on duty and warfare are brought to light. Ultimately, Shakespeare portrays the malignance of self-doubt and insecurity, particularly a man's insecurity in his own masculinity. Othello's love for Desdemona is usurped by his paranoia; all traces of his previous trust in her are gone. His wife becomes a source of fury and humiliation for him, and he reduces their marriage to the traditional dynamic of a man fighting for authority over his wife. In the end, he believes it is his duty to murder her in order to save others from the fate of a cuckold. He views her death as a sacrifice for the benefit of all men, choosing male solidarity over romantic love.