"I think you are happy in this second match for it excels your first: or if it did not your first is dead or twere as good he were" - Act 3 scene 5
- big betrayal for Juliet
-nurses pentameter breaks down- Shakespeare uses it to show that what she is saying is wrong
-this advice is emotionally wrong for Juliet as she loves Romeo however is being forced to marry Paris
-however for a patriarchal society this advice is good as there is no realistic expectation that there marriage could ever be public - marrying Paris is a much better match socially and financially for Juliet