The play's dominant and most important theme, specifically the intensity and passion that can occur because of love at first sight
Love in the play is presented as romantic love, but may also be lust or infatuation rather than deep and lasting love
Romeo's language when first seeing Juliet
Hyperbolic verse in rhyming couplets, dripping with alliteration
Oh she doth teach the torches to burn bright
It seems she hangs upon the cheek of night as a rich jewel in an ethiopia beauty too rich for use for earth to deer
Juliet's language when first meeting Romeo
Use of antonyms and rhyming couplets
My only love sprung from my only hate
Too early seen unknown and known too late
Prodigious birth of love it is to me that i must love a loathed enemy
The heightened poetic, melodramaticlanguage of the lovers provides a powerful introduction to love at first sight, which the audience knows will end tragically
Juliet's young age is an issue, and Romeo is on the rebound from a similar infatuation with Rosalind
The pressures on Juliet to marry Paris because she is of a "pretty age" forces the young lovers into an ill-conceived marriage too soon for them to really know each other
Love in the play
Overwhelming, incapacitating the ability to behave logically or calmly, blinding them to all other values, loyalties and emotions
Juliet's dramatic and extreme behavior
Defying her family, denying her father and refusing her name
Romeo's behavior
Dropping his friends Mercutio and Benvolio after the feast to go to Juliet's garden
Shakespeare's presentation of love
Not a sentimental love, but a realistic, dangerous, passionate, obsessive and brutal love that is like a car hurtling full speed towards an inevitable tragic crash
Religious imagery in the play
Makes the love feel almost spiritual at times
Described as a kind of magic, a light bewitched by the charm of looks
Generally feels chaotic, powerful, exciting and mysterious
Juliet perfectly describes her love for Romeo by refusing to describe it, saying "my true love is grown to such success I cannot sum up some of half my wealth"
The love experienced in the play drives everything towards a violent and tragic end, partly because of the existence of hate that runs parallel to the love story, and partly because of the blindness caused by such explosive love
Sex
The themes of love and sex are closely linked, with Romeo's romanticism about both Juliet and Rosalind counterbalanced by his awareness of the sexual element of their relationship
Mercutio's crude language and sexual innuendo
Lolling up and down, hide his bauble in a hole
Juliet's attitude towards love and sex
More traditional, in line with Catholic doctrine, with love standing above sex and the view that marriage must be legally consummated through sexual intercourse
Juliet's metaphor about love and sex
Oh I have bought the mansion of a love but not possessed it
And though I am sold not yet enjoyed
Shakespeare presents Juliet's mature ideas about sex, which is difficult to believe given her young age, likely due to the need to hide sexuality using metaphor and puns to avoid censorship
Violence
A very important theme, with Verona being a violent place with armed men walking around in gangs fueled by the ancient grudge between the Capulets and the Montagues
Violent language and imagery
Gregory saying "draw thy tall" and Samson responding "my naked weapon is out"
Tybalt keen to fight Romeo
Tybalt killing Mercutio, and Romeo killing Tybalt
The link between sex and violence starts with the innuendo but continues with Samson declaring his desire to "push Montague's men from the war and thrust his maids to the wall"
Individual vs Society
Much of the play involves the lovers' struggle against public and social institutions that oppose their love, such as the patriarchal society, law and order, religion, and pressures on honor and reputation
The young lovers are surrounded by pressures that make their relationship impossible to succeed, including the church, the fathers, and the obsession with defending honor
Fate
The idea that Romeo and Juliet are "star-crossed", fated not to be together because of the movements of the stars, fits the tragic genre of the play
The characters are aware that they are defying their fate, with Romeo declaring "then I defy you, stars" before his suicide
The plans by Friar Lawrence seem doomed to failure, with a series of accidents and impeccably bad timing, as if the fate was against the lovers all along
The dramatic irony of revealing the ending at the beginning creates anticipation and tension that has captivated audiences for centuries