kung ano ka ngayon dahil yan sa chilhood experiences mo
Final Goal
success or superiority toward which all people strive unifies personality and makes all behavior meaningful
Striving force as compensation
people strive for superiority or success as a means of compensation for feelings of inferiority or weaknesses
striving for personal superiority
Psychologically unhealthy individuals strive for personal superiority with little concern for other people
striving for success
Psychologically healthy people strive for the success of all humanity, but they do so without losing their personal identity
dreams
unfulfilled desired during daytime
manifest dreams
naalala pagkagising
latent dreams
hidden dream
ID
institutional desire
inferiority complex
During infancy since wala pa tayong alam and kaya we seek for guidance
Social Theory
derived from mother and child relationship
agoraphobia
fear of not having an escape from an unwanted situation
style of life
goal and flavor of our life
socially useful life
empathetic, help people with no compensation
Birth Order
Adler saw family dynamics as very important in a child’s development. One important aspect of family dynamics is birth order. A child’s place in birth order can impact on their personality
Eldest Child
protective and highly anxious
middle child
black sheep, cooperative, highly competitive
youngest child
realistically ambitious, dependent with others
social interest
relationship of mother and child
Social interest
it refers to an individual’s attitude towards and awareness of being part of the human community.
creative power
Ability to freely choose a course of action
exaggerated physical defects
inferiority complex is normal
physical defects
organ defect, PWDS
exaggerated physical defects
Subjective and exaggerated feelings of inferiority because they overcompensate for their inadequacy
pampered style of life
Weak social interest but a strong desire to perpetuate the pampered, establish a permanent parasitic relationship with the mother or mother substitute; dependent; in need of gratification
neglected style of life
Children who feel unloved and unwanted are likely to develop this feeling, Abused and mistreated children develop little social interest and ten to create a neglected style of life
safeguarding tendencies
protecting self esteem from the public
masculine protest
penis dominant
excuses
People first state what they claim they would like to do – something that sounds good to others – then they follow an excuse
depreciation
tendency to undervalue other people’s achievements and to overvalue one’s own. There is evident aggressive behavior such as gossip and criticism, daniel kay kathryn
accusation
tendency to blame others for one’s failure and to seek revenge
self accusation
devalue themselves in order to inflict suffering on others while protecting their own magnified feelings of self-esteem; hindi kita deserve mas better para sayo
moving backward
psychologically reverting to a more secured period of life
standing still
simply do not move in any direction. They avoid all the responsibilities
hesitating
characterized by vacillation or procrastination to provide a person with the excuse “It’s too late now”
constructing obstacles
creation of an obstacle. beating an obstacle (even if produced by oneself) generates feelings of reward and an artificial sense of success that preserves self-esteem, creation of own problem na feel mo ma solve mo