Usually these people remind us of someone in the past who has affected our sense of self and behavior
Propinquity Effect
We often develop a sense of familiarity with people who live close to us
Similarity
We are often attracted to like-minded persons and those who have similar beliefs and values as ours
Reciprocity
The more we are liked by someone we equally like, the more we behave in ways that promote mutual feelings of likings
Personality Characteristics and Trait
People get attracted to characteristics that equally lead to liking the person
Physical Attractiveness
suggest that people tend to view physical attractive more positively that others. Presumption that physically attractive people possess other socially desirable traits as well
Mere Exposure Effect
the tendency for novel stimuli to be liked more or rated more positively after the rater has been repeatedly exposed to them.
Anticipatory Liking
expecting that someone will be pleasant and compatible
Ostracism
Technical term used to describe being rejected and ignored by other people
Hypothalamus
releases dopamine into the body, causing feelings of ecstasy and excitement
Dopamine
acts on areas of the brain to give you feelings of pleasure, satisfaction and motivation
Serotonin
is responsible for a person's mood and appetite, among other things
Increases, Decreases
As dopamine level ______________, serotonin level _______________
Nerve Growth Factor
Along with dopamine, the body also produces a substance called
newly in love
NGF is more prevalent in people who are
Oxytocin, Vasopressin
_______________ and ______________ are responsible for feelings of connection and commitment
Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love
The three components of love came from
Intimacy, Passion, Commitment
What are the three components of love?
Intimacy
refers to closeness, connectedness, and bondedness in loving relationships
Passion
refers to drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, sexual consummation, and related phenomenon in loving relationships
Decision/Commitment
Refers, in the short term, to the decision that one loves a certain other, and in the long term, to one's commitment to maintain that love
Romantic Love
Intimacy + Passion
Companionate love
Intimacy + Commitment
Fatuous Love
Passion + Commitment
Consummate love
Intimacy + Commitment + Passion
Passionate Love
If we experience this kind of love, we express it physically, we expect the relationship to be exclusive, and we are intensely fascinated with our partner
Companionate Love
The affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined