values

• Bohemians relies on our ability to love and feeling of being loved
• We are created to love and to receive love
• Person is a social being
• We cannot live alone
• Love as giving is selfless
• love as using is for selfish reasons
• Love as using is called Lust
• Lust is to see the other person as a way to satisfy ones sexual desires
• Dating is about gaining friends, getting to know others more
• Sex is God's Gift
• St. John Paul II said that our bodies make visible the invisible
• Body is the extension of our souls
• Chastity is to moderate our sexual desires, we try to moderate our feelings so that we do not commit an act.
• Modesty is showing respect for people who are committed to living chaste lives.
• Prudence is an intellectual virtue that allows us to decide whether a situation is a temptation or not.
• Believe in Me talks about saving virginity, keep pure, giving trust to yourself
• Kristie Wellman talked about believe in me
• Pope John Paul II said it is the nature of human beings, and especially youth, to seek the Absolute, the meaning, and fullness of life
• Jason Evert said if a guy is exchanging the marital act with a woman before he marries her, he has made the mistake of asking for her heart before he is willing to hold and guard it with his life.
• Marriage is the moment that you profess your fidelity to your partner
• Pornographic materials destroy our definiton of love
• use of contraception is a form of lust.
• 4 marks of true love are free, total, faithful, truthful
• Free - freely chose to love another person
• Total - total self-giving to another person
• Faithful - only love 1 person
• Truthful - couple is honest and truthful and keep no secrets
• Celibacy are people who abstain from the sexual act like priests, nuns, monks
• Celibacy choose to give up human love for the love of God.
• Purity is not just the goal of single individuals, but also of married people.
• Virtues to show respect human sexuality are chastity, modesty, prudence