Modern-day people have been torn away from their prehistoric union with nature and also with one another, yet they have the power of reasoning, foresight, and imagination
Humans
Lack of animal instincts
Presence of rational thought
Freaks of the universe
Self-awareness
Contributes to feelings of loneliness, isolation, and homelessness
To escape from these feelings
People strive to become reunited with nature and with their fellow human beings
Fromm's theory of personality
Emphasizes the influence of sociobiological factors, history, economics, and class structure
Assumes humanity's separation from the natural world has produced feelings of loneliness and isolation, a condition called basic anxiety
Fromm was more than a personality theorist
Fromm's roles
Social critic
Psychotherapist
Philosopher
Biblical scholar
Cultural anthropologist
Psychobiographer
Fromm's humanistic psychoanalysis looks at people from a historical and cultural perspective rather than a strictly psychological one
Fromm's humanistic psychoanalysis is less concerned with the individual and more concerned with those characteristics common to a culture
Fromm's view of humanity
Evolutionary - when humans emerged as a separate species, they lost most of their animal instincts but gained an increase in brain development that permitted self-awareness, imagination, planning, and doubt
This combination of weak instincts and a highly developed brain makes humans distinct from all other animals
Rise of capitalism
Has contributed to the growth of leisure time and personal freedom, but has resulted in feelings of anxiety, isolation, and powerlessness
The cost of freedom has exceeded its benefits, according to Fromm
Alternatives to the isolation wrought by capitalism
Escape from freedom into interpersonal dependencies
Move to self-realization through productive love and work
Fromm’s most basic assumption is that individual personality can be understood
only in the light of human history. “The discussion of the human situation must
precede that of personality, [and] psychology must be based on an anthropologic-
philosophical concept of human existence” (Fromm, 1947, p. 45).
Fromm (1947): 'Humans have been "torn away" from their prehistoric union with nature. They have no powerful instincts to adapt to a changing world; instead, they have acquired the facility to reason—a condition Fromm called the human dilemma.'
Human dilemma
People experience this basic dilemma because they have become separate from nature and yet have the capacity to be aware of themselves as isolated beings
Human ability to reason
Both a blessing and a curse
Existential dichotomies
Life and death
Complete self-realization vs short life span
Aloneness vs union
Humans cannot do away with these existential dichotomies; they can only react to these dichotomies relative to their culture and their individual personalities
Existential dichotomy: Life and death
Self-awareness and reason tell us that we will die, but we try to negate this dichotomy by postulating life after death
Existential dichotomy: Complete self-realization vs short life span
Humans are capable of conceptualizing the goal of complete self-realization, but we also are aware that life is too short to reach that goal
Existential dichotomy: Aloneness vs union
People are ultimately alone, yet they cannot tolerate isolation. They are aware of themselves as separate individuals, and at the same time, they believe that their happiness depends on uniting with their fellow human beings
Human needs
Physiological needs (hunger, sex, safety)
Existential needs (relatedness, transcendence, rootedness, sense of identity, frame of orientation)
Healthy individuals are better able to find ways of reuniting to the world by productively solving the human needs of relatedness, transcendence, rootedness, a sense of identity, and a frame of orientation
Relatedness
The drive for union with another person or other persons. Three basic ways: submission, power, love
Submitting to another
Becoming one with the world by transcending the separateness of individual existence
Submissive people
Search for a relationship with domineering people
Power seekers
Welcome submissive partners
Symbiotic relationship
Satisfying to both submissive and domineering partners, but blocks growth toward integrity and psychological health
People in symbiotic relationships
Drawn to one another not by love but by a desperate need for relatedness, with underlying unconscious feelings of hostility
People in symbiotic relationships
Become more dependent on their partners and less of an individual
Love
The only route by which a person can become united with the world and achieve individuality and integrity
Love
A union with somebody or something outside oneself under the condition of retaining the separateness and integrity of one's own self
Four basic elements of genuine love
Care
Responsibility
Respect
Knowledge
Care in love
Caring for the other person and being willing to take care of them
Responsibility in love
A willingness and ability to respond to the physical and psychological needs of the other person
Respect in love
Respecting the other person for who they are and avoiding the temptation of trying to change them
Knowledge in love
Seeing the other person from their own point of view
Transcendence
The urge to rise above a passive and accidental existence and into "the realm of purposefulness and freedom"