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    • refer to close connections between people, formed by emotional bonds and interactions
    personal relationships
    • Relationships are not blank, they are continually evolving
    static
  • to fully enjoy and benefit relationships, we need
    skills, information, inspiration, practice, and social support
  • 3 kinds of personal rs: two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage, or adoption and who live together as one household

    family
  • 3 kinds of personal rs: can be thought of as a close tie between two people that is often built upon mutual experiences, shared interests, proximity, and emotional bonding
    friendship
  • 3 kinds of personal rs:
    • are close relationships formed between two people that are built upon affection, trust, intimacy, and romantic love
    romantic relationship
    • We usually experience this kind of relationship with only one person at a time
    romantic relationship
    • Nicholas Christakis and James Fowler, social-network researchers and authors of the book Connected,  

    find that the average person has about six close ties
    • online friends don’t count toward close ties
    large online network isn’t nearly as powerful as having a few close, real-life friends.
  • some typical characteristics of this type of rs are:
    • support, mutual trust, regular interactions, shared beliefs and values, security, and a sense of community
    family
    • These bonds often grow from and are strengthened by mutual experiences
    personal relationships
  • BUILDING and MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIP
    • RELATIONSHIP
    • PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
    • ATTRACTION
    • COMMITMENT
    • RESPONSIBILITY
    • LOVE
    • heritage
    family legacies
    • enduring sense of security and stability nurtured in an environment of safety and love
    emotional legacy
  • the insights and social skills necessary to cultivate healthy, stable relationships
    social legacy
  • attitudes and beliefs about spiritual matters from one source or another
    spiritual legacy
    • If their parents are loving, affirming, forgiving and yet strong in what they believe, children will think of God that way
    spiritual legacy
  • He is someone who cares, who is principled and who loves them above all else.
    spiritual legacy
  • At home you learned — and your children will learn — lessons about respect, courtesy, love and involvement.
    social legacy
  • Key building blocks of children's blank legacy include: Respect, beginning with themselves and working out to other people.
    social
  • Rules that are given within a loving relationship
    Social legacy
  • a social, emotional and spiritual legacy passed on from parent to child
    family legacies
  • A spiritual, emotional and social legacy is like a
    three stranded cord
    • The good news is that you can decide to pass a positive legacy on to your children whether you received one or not
    family legacies
    • It is important to remember that passing on a spiritual, emotional and social legacy is a process, 

    not an event
  • if we don't intentionally pass a legacy consistent with our beliefs to our children,
    our culture will pass along its own, often leading to a negative end.
  • hinders our ability to cope with the inevitable struggles of life.
    emotional legacy
  • Unconditional love and acceptance by their parents, combined with conditional acceptance when the parents discipline for bad behavior or actions
    social legacy
  • Demonstrates unconditional love

    emotional legacy
  • creates a blank place for the soul - emotional legacy
    resting
  • giving warm family memories to your child can create an atmosphere that provides a child's fragile spirit with the nourishment and support needed for healthy emotional growth
    emotional legacy
  • A strong emotional legacy: Provides a safe environment in which deep emotional roots can grow.
    Fosters confidence through stability.
  • strong emotional legacy: Nurtures a strong sense of positive identity.
    Conveys a tone of trusting support.
  • requireS time and consistency to develop a sense of wholeness
    emotional legacy
    • Skills matter in every stream
    What's hot today may not necessarily be 10/20 years later
  • You must know what your aptitude is before choosing a career

    You should not depend your happiness to others
  • Procrastination is no substitute for laziness
    The ingredients of fulfilling career also includes passion and commitment to growth
    • The ingredients of fulfilling career also includes passion and commitment to growth
    You are never too old to switch careers
  • Being multi-skilled allows you to learn and adapt accordingly
    Impulsive decisions lack planning and direction
  • If you love what you do, you will not feel like you are working
    • Procrastination is no substitute for laziness