Quarter 4

• Affection

  - is one of human being's greatest emotion.
• Romantic attachments 


  are one of the most important aspects of life for these people and a source of tremendous fulfilment
• Personal Relationship


  is a form of relationship closely linked to a person and which can only be important to that person
• Kinds of personal relationship

  • Privacy and intimacy are two attributes describing personal relationships and level of commitment to another person/s
• impersonal relationship


  commitment to an organization like a business entity, a principle or purpose.
• Attraction


  is a force that unites people and can grow into an attachment which eventually leads to commitment
• love has three components

  intimacy, passion, and commitment which are describe as consummate love
• empty love


  means engagement without passion or intimacy
• companionate love


  characteristic of close friendships, is affection and loyalty but there is no passion.
• romantic love


  passion and affection but no engagement
• fatuous llove


  characterized by passion and devotion but no intimacy, such as long term sexual love affair
• RA 11313


  safe space act, intentionally prohibits indecent and unlawful acts of expression
• RA 7877


  anti-harassment act of 1995, this law recognizes that sexual harassment occurs in the workplace, education, and training environment, and penalizes person who have authority, influence, and moral status in those institutions who commit prohibited acts of sexua harassment.
• What makes a heathy and acceptable expression of attraction?

  1. Mutual respect
  2. Trust
  3. Honesty
  4. Support
  5. Equality
  6. Separate identities
  7. Good communication
• 10 things that are unacceptable in any relationship

  1. Cheating
  2. Putting you down
  3. Not supporting your dreams
  4. Controlling
  5. Lack of communication
  6. Unnecessary sacrifices
  7. Unreliability
  8. Forgetting the memorable day
  9. Self-destruction
  10. Not caring about friends and family
• attraction


  action or power of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or something
• interpersonal attraction


  when you have a positive attitude regarding a particular person in relation to different components.
• key components of attraction that may be the reason for someone liking others


  Physical attractiveness

  Similarity

  Proximity

  Reciprocity
• Physical attractiveness


  Initially, people tend to be influenced by what they see. Facial features like the shape and color of the eyes, the nose, the lips, and even the

  cheekbones and jaw have an impact when talking with another person or people; the built of the body, the color of the hair, the complexion, the smoothness of the skin, and the smile also may be considered with impact as these are the first things available elements presented even without interaction.
• similarity


  causes attraction. Oftentimes, people classify other people based on information they already knew about them. That is social categorization, wherein, people mentally group others on where they belong and that with the same characteristics with them, like group age, religion, personality, attitude, social status, or education.
• Proximity


  One of the important aspects of any relationship is distance. pertains to physical distance with other people and it is related to functional distance. The more you encounter or interact with the person, the more you allow yourself to get to know him/her better which leads to a better relationship like friendship or intimate relationship.
• Reciprocity


  We tend to get along with people or with someone whom we have the same feelings toward. It is when feelings with someone are being

  reciprocated or returned in the same way as you do.
• Love


  strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties;
• love


  An assurance of affection
• According to Sue Carter and Stephen Porges, “love is one of the important components of a complex neurochemical system that allows the body to adapt to highly emotional situations”.
• Secure Attachment Style


  a healthy style wherein the children used to receive care and easily communicate with the parents since they feel that they are always available to listen and keep them safe.
• Anxious/ambivalent Attachment Style -


  children are lacking or seeking more affection from parents
• Avoidant Attachment Style


  is when children are distant to the parent/s, sometimes due to unpleasant experiences.
• commitment


  “commitment refers to the feelings and action that keep partners working together to maintain the relationship”.
• how to exercise expressing affections and developed into a commitment for any kinds of relationship. These may serve as tips on how to keep healthy relationships with others.


  Stay happy

  Be empathic.

  Keep open communication.

  Always trust.

  Show respect.

  Be a helping hand.
• Some of the importance of relationships are:

  Lead us to make healthy relationships.

  Help us see our potential.

  Boost our confidence.

  Give you a sense of direction.

  Clear our life goals and aspirations.

  Build a beautiful person within you.
• 6 Major Elements of Becoming Responsible in a Relationship

  1. Mutual Respect
  2. Value Quality Time
  3. Trust and Honesty
  4. Well-Communicated Love
  5. Reliability and Security
  6. Non-judgmental Listening and Presence
• Role


  defines a set of norms, values, behaviors, and personality

  characteristics attached to a status such as leader, follower, or club president.
• Roles of an Efficient Leader that can influence people:

  Set example

  Assume and do responsibility

  Show Initiative

  Life-long learner

  Show enthusiasm

  Willing to serve

  Active listener

  Show empathy

  Be sensitive to the need of others

  Delegate work

  Learn to appreciate

  Be patient
• Set example 


  a good leader sets the best example. It is the first rule. Walk

  the talk. Do not compromise anybody in the organization or team integrity. Never take shortcuts.
• Assume and do responsibility


  you should be guided by your own duties

  and responsibilities. Be proactive in guiding,
• Show Initiative


  find out what needs to be done. do not wait for anyone
• Life-long learner


  capacitate yourself. Learn everything you need to know

  about the current job.
• Show enthusiasm


  if you come to work happy and cheerful, it provides

  motivation. Enthusiasm is contagious.
• Willing to serve


  this quality is known of a servant leader.