Process of realizing capabilities, unleashing potential, and achieving goals that are shaped over time either by studying in a formal school or through environmental factors
Socrates: '"An unexamined life is not worth living."'
Aristotle: '"Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom."'
Johari Window
Psychological technique that helps people better understand their relationships with themselves and others
Created by psychologists Joseph Luft and Harrington Ingham in 1955
Encourages individuals to reveal information about themselves and receive feedback from others to facilitate trust, self-awareness, and mutual understanding
Open Self
Information about yourself that you and others know
Blind Self
Information you don't know but others know about you
Hidden Self
Information you know about yourself but others don't
Unknown Self
Information about yourself that neither you nor others know
Self-concept
Summary of all your self-descriptions
More organized picture of yourself
Structured overall impression of the self
The way you see yourself as a person
Reflects the characteristics you believe you profess and those qualities that come to mind when you start mulling over the person that you are and what makes you different from others
Possible Selves
Self-concept incorporated with a future component (since self-concept is not limited to your past and present self-images)
Hope-for-Selves
What you want to become
Expected Selves
What you expect to become
Feared Selves
What you do not want to be in the future
5 Points of Personal Development
Mental Growth
Social Growth
Spiritual Growth
Emotional Growth
Physical Growth
Mental Growth
Development of your mind, such as the way you think and learn
Relates to how your cognitive functions affect your behavior
Improving mental aptitude can benefit anyone
Performing simple tasks, like staying informed about trends and updates in your field, can help you experience gradual mental growth that can lead to productivity at work
Involves one's critical thinking skills, imagination, and complex problem-solving techniques
Social Growth
Improving your communication skills
Learning how to communicate effectively can be important, especially if you work independently
Helps you develop friendships at work that promote job satisfaction
Involves showing sympathy (feeling sorry for something a person went through) and empathy (understanding the feelings of others), camaraderie, sportsmanship, and composure in public or critical situations
Spiritual Growth
Connecting with yourself on a holistic level, developing as a person, and finding inner peace
Experienced depending on a person's culture, belief, and experience
Help you manage stress and build confidence in yourself and your abilities
Involves studying the Bible (devotion), praying, sharing the gospel, showing love and kindness to others, and following God's commandments
Emotional Growth
Development and management of your feelings and how you react to situations
Help you overcome stress and anxiety that can lead to burnouts
Allows you to process and evaluate your feelings at work which can help you choose an appropriate course of action
Involves being happy for someone's success, the ability to handle pressure, and being optimistic
Physical Growth
Taking care of your body and using it in productive ways
Physical condition affects all other areas of personal development as a healthy body facilitates effective brain functioning
Focus on physical growth by eating nutritious meals, exercising regularly, and getting adequate sleep
When you feel better physically, you may find it easier to work more efficiently
Psychological Self
How young children comprehend their enduring mental and emotional characteristics
Valued Self
Young children's overall evaluation of themselves
Looking-Glass Self
Self is relational
Teenagers see themselves through their interaction with other people and adopt other people's view about themselves
Coined by Charles Cooley (1902)
Does not only imply that people see themselves through the eyes of others
Suggests that people tend to form ideas about themselves by tuning to what they perceive as other people's judgment about themselves
Self-Schemas
Elements of self-concept that entail your beliefs about yourself
Includes your strengths and weaknesses in a particular area
Result from your past experiences and mirror how you understand a thing or event
Categories of knowledge that reflect how we expect ourselves to think, feel, and act in a certain setting or situation
Actual Self
Characteristics you believe you currently have
Ideal Self
Qualities you would like to be
Ought Self
Attributes you think you should have
Self-Discrepancy
Happens when the actual self does not match the standards set by the ideal or ought self
Gap between the actual self and ideal self
The greater the individual's self-discrepancy is, the more discomfort he or she will suffer
Self-Esteem
Based on Higgins and his colleagues, is when people live up to their standards and experience high self-worth
How we value and perceive ourselves
Self-confidence
In psychology, Snyder and Fromkin (1980) introduced the theory of uniqueness
Assert that everyone is motivated to establish and maintain a sense of moderate self-distinctiveness
Personality
Relatively stable characteristics and qualities that account for consistency and distinctiveness in an individual
Suggests two aspects: our consistent tendency and inclination to reach the same situation in a unique manner
Adolescence
Transitional stage of physical and psychological development that occurs during the period from puberty to adulthood
Associated with teenage years but its physical, psychological, or cultural expression may begin earlier or end later
The Three Phases of Adolescence
Early Adolescence (10 to 14 years)
Middle Adolescence (15 to 17 years)
Late Adolescence (18 to 24 years)
Socio-Emotional Development
How children start to understand who they are, what they are feeling, and what to expect when interacting with others
Largely characterized by the quest for identity during adolescence
Identity
Qualities, beliefs, personality traits, appearance, and expressions that characterize a person or group
Adolescents become more aware of their individuality
Driven in discovering who they really are and to achieve a stable sense of self
Sexuality, career orientation, and ethnicity
Definite idea of the self, who one is, what they want to take on in the future, and what they believe in
Younger adolescents tend to be conventional in their views based on their judgement on laws, rules, and norms imposed by society (moral reasoning)
Change of View in Terms of Socialization
Wanting independence from parents
Importance in peer influence and acceptance
Importance in peer relationships
Being in love
Having long-term commitments in relationships
Neurotransmitters
Chemical messenger that transmit signals from nerve cells to target cells
Important in boosting and balancing signals in the brain and for keeping the brain functioning
Manage automatic responses such as breathing and heart rate
Has psychological functions such as learning, managing mood, fear, pleasure, and happiness
Released from synaptic vesicles into the synaptic cleft when
Adolescents
Become more aware of their individuality
Driven in discovering who they really are and to achieve a stable sense of self
Develop sexuality, career orientation, and ethnicity
Develop a definite idea of the self, who one is, what they want to take on in the future, and what they believe in
Younger adolescents
Tend to be conventional in their views based on their judgement on laws, rules, and norms imposed by society (moral reasoning)
Change of view in terms of socialization
1. Wanting independence from parents
2. Importance in peer influence and acceptance
3. Importance in peer relationships
4. Being in love
5. Having long-term commitments in relationships
Neurotransmitters
Chemical messengers that transmit signals from nerve cells to target cells
Important in boosting and balancing signals in the brain and for keeping the brain functioning
Manage automatic responses such as breathing and heart rate
Have psychological functions such as learning, managing mood, fear, pleasure, and happiness
Released from synaptic vesicles into the synaptic cleft where they interact with neurotransmitter receptors on the target cells
Their effect on the target cell is determined by the receptor they bind to
Many are synthesized from simple and plentiful precursors such as amino acids that are readily available and require a small number of biosynthetic steps for conversion
There are more than 100 types
Serotonin
"Happiness" neurotransmitter
Inhibitory neurotransmitter
Regulates mood, sleep patterns, sexuality, anxiety, appetite, and pain