The belief and confidence that you can accomplish tasks and control your environment
Charles Horton Cooley
Popularized the concept of looking glass self
Theorizes that people around you serve as mirrors that reflect how you see yourself
Self-awareness
The ability to know yourself extensively (e.g. knowing your inner state and how you think)
Shelly Duval and Robert Wicklund
Self-awareness theory
When you focus on yourself, there is the tendency to compare what you currently observe to the standards you set for yourself
If there is a mismatch between ideal self and actual self, this may become a source of distress to you and your self-esteem
Self-discrepancy theory
If the ideal self is consistent with the actual self, you react positively
Self-concept clarity
Having high self-concept clarity helps you and your desire to become self-aware by providing a more stable view of your positive traits
2 types of self-awareness
Internal self-awareness
External self-awareness
Dr. Tasha Eurich
Her study for the Harvard Business Review shows four types of individuals and how you exhibit internal and external self-awareness
High self-individual
An individual who is well aware of his strengths and weaknesses
Steps to Self-Awareness
Ask yourself why
Delay gratification
Take feedback constructively
Let go of biases
Use tools to know yourself
Reflect often
Individual differences
Refers to the differences and similarities among people in a psychological way
Demographics
The statistical characteristics of people like age, gender, religion or socioeconomic status
Social Learning Theory
Was proposed by Albert Bandura
According to him, people learn from each other through observation, modeling and imitation
Conditions for Effective Modeling
Attention
Retention
Reproduction
Motivation
Reciprocal Determinism
When a certain behavior is imitated by another, this can cause a chain reaction in which other people will begin to imitate this behavior until it becomes a habit or accepted by many
Different Strategies for Social Learning
Discussions
Photos
Audio
Video
Journal as Tools of Self-Reflection
Helps in boosting your performance and productivity
One way of venting safely
Enhances creativity
Recording good ideas
Habit formation
Mental health tool
Blogging and vlogging
Both used to keep track of one's activities
Holistic Development
An adolescent is constantly changing
Holism
According to General Jan C. Smuts, it is the tendency in nature to form wholes which are greater than the sum of the parts through creative evolution
Five Areas of Personal Development
Physiological Development
Cognitive Development
Social and Emotional Development
Spiritual Development
Psychological Development
Cognition
According to the American Psychological Association, are the processes of knowing (e.g. remembering, attending and reasoning)
Attitude
One of the aspects that is influenced by mental skills
The Elements of Attitude
Cognitive
Affective
Behavioral
Emotions
Responses that create biochemical reactions in the body
Feelings
Mental reactions and associations to emotions
Spiritual Development
Characterized by the discovery and experience of the inner guide that steers the values and beliefs of a person
Psychological Development
The growth and development of a person's cognitive, emotional, and social skills
Dualism
The recognition and comprehension of the nature of things dually
Mind/Body Connection
Mind and body are connected. Thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and attitudes affect the body positively or negatively
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Behavior is affected by how you think and feel. Its main purpose is to correct misconceptions, false beliefs, and faulty reasoning to sustain a healthy level of adjustment and connection with other people
The Cycle of Behavior
1. Thoughts
2. Feelings
3. Behaviors
Ways to alter the thoughts, feelings, and behavior of a person
Rewards and Associations
Changing irrational beliefs
Reflection and automatic judgment
Self-Evaluation
The act of recognizing and evaluating the thoughts, emotions, and behaviors of the person and creating helpful and beneficial steps to understand the self and other people