Strongerreaction if broken ie. kids being naked is OK, but not adults being naked
Taboos
So strong laws aren't needed ie. incest
Types of pickup lines
Friendly
Offbeat
Humorous
Altar
Seductive
Friendly pickup line
"Would you mind some conversation while we wait?"
Offbeat pickup line
"Do you think we are ever going to switch to the metric system?"
Humorous pickup line
"So what's a nice girl like you doing in an elevator like this?"
Altar pickup line
"I'd like to take you home to meet my mother"
Seductive pickup line
"You are the sexiest woman in the room"
SEMCDR Model
Source
Encoder
Message
Channel
Decoder
Receiver
Source
Initial person whose idea will be communicated
Encoder
Takes the thoughts/idea and puts it in some form that people can understand
Message
Code: meaningful structure of symbols (language)
Content: Basic stuff of message, symbols from beginning to end
Treatment: how you deliver message (tone and volume)
Double-bind: Class between what you said and how you said it. Content vs. treatment.
Channel
The medium used to send message ie. face to face, TV
Decoder
Takes ideas out of form and into thoughts
Receiver
Idea is communicated to receiver
High fidelity
Source to receiver without distortion (face to face)
Low fidelity
TV with a lot of static
Noise
Enemy of fidelity, interferes with message
Internal noise
Thinking about food instead of listening
Feedback
The receiver becomes the source; relates to the fact that messages can go in either direction and constantly switch who is the source and the receiver
SEMCDR model is linear, feedback is not
Types of communication systems
Intrapersonal
Interpersonal
SmallGroup
Mass
Intrapersonal
With yourself, your feelings and thoughts, mediated by diary, mirror
Interpersonal
Between two people, dyadic, source/receiver, mediated by email, text
Small Group
Starts with 3 people, anyone can be a source, you know everyone, mediated by Zoom, text
Mass
When you don't know everyone, mediated by lecture with microphone
Perception process
Receive/collect sensory
Reception: Operation of your senses
Analysis: Focusing, interpreting, organizing
Perception factors within the object
Easy, obvious
Intense
Contrast
Repetition
Easy, obvious
Elephant in class
Intense
Terrorism, police siren
Contrast
Nude guy in contrast to clothed people
Repetition
Churches repeating songs/creeds
Perception factors within ourselves
Past learning experiences
Culture
Language
Stereotypes
Motivations
Roles
Moods
Attitudes
Psychological tendencies
Past learning experiences
Woman doesn't trust men after past relationships
Culture
Flash 2 images, one in each eye. A baseball player and a bull fighter. Over 90% of people in Mexico saw the bull fighter. Over 90% of people in America saw the baseball player.
Language
Northern native people have multiple different words for snow
Stereotypes
Virtues when its my group, vice when done by opposing group
Negative twist: puts you in position above group, praise athletes but say they are dumb jocks
Motivations
Easy to see everyone else at fault
Likely to see billboards for food when hungry
Religious motivations – christians seeing jesus in clouds