Freaks of Universe - lack of animal instincts and presence o rational thought
Three Existential Dichotomies
Life and Death
Humans are capable of conceptualizing the goal of complete self-realization, but we also are aware that life is too short to reach that goal
People are ultimately alone, yet we cannot tolerate isolation
Relatedness drive for union with another person or other persons
Symbiotic Relationship - desperate need for relatedness, submission and power
3 Basic ways to relate to the world: submission, power, love
Love is the only route by which a person can become united with the world.In love, two people become one yet remain two
Transcendence - the urge to rise above a passive and accidental existence and into "the realm of purposefulness and freedom"
Malignant Aggression - to kill for reasons other than survival
Rootedness - the need to establish roots or to feel at home again in the world
Fixation -
reluctance to move beyond the protective security provided by mother
Sense of Identity - the capacity to be aware of ourselves as a separate entity
Frame of Orientation - being split off from nature, humans need a road map, a goal
Authoritarianism "tendency to give up the independence of one's own individual self and to fuse one's self with somebody or something outside oneself
Masochism aimed at joining the self to a more powerful person or institution.
Sadism Fromm (1941) identified three kinds of sadistic tendencies, all more or less clustered together. (1) to gain power over those who are weak. (2) to exploit, take advantage others (3) desire to see others suffer
Destructiveness seeks to do away with other people, destructive people eliminate much of the outside world and thus acquire a type of perverted isolation
Conformity giving up their individuality and becoming whatever other people desire them to be
Personality the totality of inherited and acquired psychic qualities which are characteristic of one individual and which make the individual unique
Character “the relatively permanent system of all noninstinctual strivings through which man relates himself to the human and natural world
Nonproductive Orientations
Receptive — relates to the world by receiving things passively
Exploitative relates to the world by taking things through force/aggressively,
Hoarding relates to the world by seeking to save things they already obtained
Marketing — see themselves as commodities, personal value dependent on their exchange value, that is, their ability to sell themselves.
Productive Orientation
Has three dimensions—working, loving, and reasoning (thinking)
Productive Orientation
Works toward positive freedom and a continuing realization of their potential
Productive Work - creative self-expression
Productive Love - characterized by care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge
Biophilia a passionate love of life and all that is alive
Love of others and self-love are inseparable but that self- love must come first
Productive Thinking - motivated by concerned interest in another person or object
Healthy People
Receive things from other people
Take things when appropriate
Preserve things
Exchange things
Work, love, and think productively
Syndrome of Growth
Possess biophilia, love of others, positive freedom
Necrophilia
Attraction to death, hate humanity; they are racists, warmongers, and bullies; they love bloodshed, destruction, terror, and torture; and they delight in destroying life
Malignant Narcissism
In its malignant form, narcissism impedes the perception of reality so that everything belonging to a narcissistic person is highly valued and everything belonging to another is devalued (neurotic claims)
Hypochondriasis
Obsessive attention to one's health
Moral Hypochondriasis
Preoccupation with guilt about previous transgressions
Incestuous Symbiosis
Extreme dependence on the mother or mother surrogate (mother fixation)