Christian views on the meaning and purpose of sexual relationships
Sex should be part of a life-long relationship
Sex should only take place between a man and a woman who are married to each other
Sex is a relationship blessed by God and given to humans as a gift to strengthen the bond of marriage
The Bible teaches that sex should only take place within marriage 'that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united with his wife, and they become one' (Genesis 2:24)
Having sex when not in a committed relationship
Can lead to people becoming emotionally hurt, especially when the relationship ends
A relationship should not be based entirely on eros love, or sexual attraction
Avoiding sex before marriage
Can prevent the problem of an unwanted pregnancy outside marriage and can lessen the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection
Christians believe that one of the main purposes of marriage is to have children and to keep the love between a couple strong
Different opinions within Christianity
Some Christians are prepared to accept pre-marital sex as part of a loving relationship if the couple are committed to each other and plan to marry
Some Christians also accept that sex can be part of a committed same-sex relationship
Church teaching on sexual relationships
The Presbyterian Church
The Church of Ireland
The Roman Catholic Church
The Presbyterian Church: 'Ideally God meant sex to be enjoyed in the context of the full commitment of marriage. It is the physical expression of the deeper reality of the two becoming one.'
The Church of Ireland: 'Human sexuality is a wonderful gift from God... we would urge that young people would question any behaviour that devalues this gift or which hinders its fulfilment within the context of marriage.'
The Roman Catholic Church: 'Experience teaches us that love must find its safeguard in the stability of marriage, if sexual intercourse is truly to respond to the requirements... of human dignity.'
Celibacy
Remaining unmarried and without sexual relations for religious reasons
Virgin
Someone who has never had sexual relations
Vocation
The Christian belief that God calls people to a certain job
Chastity
To abstain from sexual relations
Reasons for choosing celibacy
Religious reasons
Social reasons
Some Churches, such as the Roman Catholic Church, make celibacy a requirement of being a priest or a member of a religious order
Celibacy is a permanent life-long choice to be a virgin
Some Christians may choose celibacy temporarily, believing that sex should be kept for marriage
Some Christians who are homosexual may feel that celibacy is the only option for them
Some people choose celibacy as a sensible lifestyle choice to avoid the risks of casual sex, unplanned pregnancy or STIs
Some people choose celibacy after a divorce or death of a partner, feeling they are no longer interested in finding a new partner
Some people choose celibacy due to a bad experience in a sexual relationship or getting over a separated partner
Many people, including some within the Roman Catholic Church, feel the idea of celibacy is now outdated and priests should be free to marry and have a family
The official position of the Roman Catholic Church is that celibacy among priests must remain, as it 'enables them to give themselves to God alone with an undivided heart'
Homosexuality
Attraction to people of the same sex
Lesbian
A female who is sexually attracted to someone of the same sex
Heterosexual
A person who is sexually attracted to someone of the opposite sex
Same-sex marriage became legal in England and Wales in March 2014, and in Northern Ireland on 13 January 2020
The Old Testament condemns homosexual acts, while the New Testament is less explicit, with Jesus not directly commenting on it and St Paul condemning homosexual relationships
Some Christians do not accept same-sex marriage, arguing that God intended marriage to be between a heterosexual man and woman
Some Christians argue the Church should accept same-sex couples in serious, committed relationships