When two people develop long and lasting emotional bonds, in this case the infant and their caregiver. Both the infant and caregiver seek closeness to each other and feel secure when close to their attachment figure.
The caregiver carefully paying attention to the infant's communication and responding appropriately, such as comforting, feeding or changing the infant depending on what they are trying to communicate.
Stage 1 (birth to 6 weeks): Asocial stage - infants display behaviors like crying and smiling to any caregiver
Stage 2 (6 weeks to 7 months): Indiscriminate attachment - infants can tell difference between familiar and unfamiliar adults but don't show separation or stranger anxiety
Stage 3 (5-9 months): Specific attachment - infants form strong connection to primary caregiver, usually mother, showing separation anxiety when they leave
Stage 4 (9-10 months): Multiple attachment - infants develop attachments to other caregivers like fathers, siblings, and grandparents, with decreased stranger anxiety
Schaffer's study found that initially, the father's role was not as important as the mother's, but by 18 months, 75% of infants had developed some attachment to the father.
Researching the father's role in infant development is socially sensitive, as findings could impact single fathers, gay couples, and legislation around paternity leave.
Harlow's research was unethical, subjecting primates to suffering, but ultimately led to an understanding of the importance of early attachment that has improved infant care
Babies just really need to be fed, and they love their mother because she is the best way to get food, parents' love for infants is more relief that the baby has stopped crying