Self-disclosure refers to the information we choose to reveal about ourselves within a romantic relationship. The aim of self-disclosure is to increase the intimacy, understanding and empathy between two individuals.
4 key points
greater disclosure leads to greater feelings of intimacy
people prefer those who disclose intimate details
people reveal more intimate details to those they like
key study- sprecher et al
aim-if reciprocal self-disclosure was more influencial in determining attraction than one sided self disclosing or listening
method- 156 undergraduate students placed in 2 person couples
2 thirds female and female 1 third male and female
first condition= one to engage in self disclosure over skype(non-reciprocal_
second condition=one member asked question and one answered then changed(repricocal)
sprecher et al findings
reciprocal condition reported more liking/closeness than non reciprocal
turn taking likely to lead to positive outcomes
types of disclosure
intimate= open up about personal experiences and previous relationships, more relationship satisfaction
neutral=favourite film, food ect- non personal
researchers suggested social norms state only moderate levels of self disclosure in early stages of relationship should occur
should not be too personal as it might be seen in a negative way