Duck's phase model

• what did Duck argue?

  -ending of a relationship isn't a one off event

  -it's a series of phases which take a long time to go through

  -each stage is marked by a threshold where one or both partners reach a point that tips them into next stage
• four stages


  -intrapsychic phase

  -dyadic phase

  -the social phase

  -grave dressing phase
• intrapsychic phase


  -one partner becomes increasingly dissatisfied with relationship

  -spend time thinking about situation

  -may talk to close friend but don't discuss concerns with partner

  -may show dissatisfaction by socially withdrawing

  -if dissatisfaction is sufficiently great there's progression to next stage
• intrapsychic threshold


  i can't stand it anymore
• dyadic phase


  -dissatisfied partner will talk to partner expressing dissatisfaction

  -may involve complaining about lack of equity, resentment over roles & rethinking commitment

  -partner then either begin to dissolve relationship or attempt to repair it
• dyadic threshold


  -i'd be justified in withdrawing
• the social phase 


  -if attempts at negotiation are unsuccessful the intention to break up is made public

  -here both partners will confide in friends & family

  -some may take sides whilst others will try to help couple get back together

  -but if relationship cannot be saved, will move onto final stage
• the social phase threshold 


  i mean it
• grave dressing phase


  -ex-partners begin organising new lives

  -will both publicise their own accounts of the breakdown

  -they will want to present am image of themselves that defend their reputation & give them credit to go into another relationship

  -want to convince new partner that they're a reasonable bet & also maintain their own self esteem
• grave dressing stage threshold


  it's now inevitable