Our sense of personal identity and of who we are as individuals
An understanding of the self is so important, it has been studied for many years by psychologists
Self
It is at the foundation of all human behavior
Cognitive Self
The self-concept - a knowledge representation that contains knowledge about us, including our beliefs about our personality traits, physical characteristics, abilities, values, goals, and roles, as well as the knowledge that we exist as individuals
Self-concept
It is a rich and complex social representation of who we are, encompassing both our internal characteristics and our social roles
It includes thoughts about our past self, our present self, and our future self
Self-complexity
The extent to which individuals have many different and relatively independent ways of thinking about themselves
Self-concept clarity
The extent to which one's self-concept is clearly and consistently defined
Self-awareness
The extent to which we are currently fixing our attention on our own self-concept
Infants recognize themselves in a mirror by about 18 months of age
The child's knowledge about the self continues to develop as the child grows
Individuals differ in the complexity and clarity of their self-concept
Self-concept complexity
The extent to which individuals have many different and relatively independent ways of thinking about themselves
Aspects of individual differences in self-awareness
Self-concern
Other-concern
Private self-consciousness
The tendency to introspect about our inner thoughts and feelings
Public self-consciousness
The tendency to focus on our outer public image and to be particularly aware of the extent to which we are meeting the standards set by others
There are clearly individual and cultural differences in the degree to and manner in which we tend to be aware of ourselves
Self-discrepancy
Perceiving a discrepancy between our actual and ideal selves, which is distressing
Self-affirmation theory
People try to reduce the threat to their self-concept posed by feelings of self-discrepancy by focusing on and affirming their worth in another domain, unrelated to the issue at hand
Self-awareness is more powerful for the person experiencing it than it is for others who are looking on, and the fact that self-concept is so highly accessible frequently leads people to overestimate the extent to which other people are focusing on them
Self-esteem
Positive (high self-esteem) or negative (low self-esteem) feelings that we have about ourselves
Self-esteem
Determined by how well we view our own performance and appearance, and how satisfied we are with our relationships with other people
Explicit and implicit measures
Ways to measure self-esteem
Most people tend to view themselves positively
Maintaining and Enhancing Self-Esteem
1. Being successful at what we do
2. Building connections with others
Narcissism
Personality trait characterized by overly high self-esteem, self-admiration, and self-centeredness
Narcissistic statements
"I know that I am good because everybody keeps telling me so"
"I can usually talk my way out of anything"
"I like to be the center of attention"
"I have a natural talent for influencing people"
Teachers, parents, school counselors, and people in many cultures frequently assume that high self-esteem causes many positive outcomes
Baumeister and colleagues (2003) conducted an extensive review of the research literature to determine whether having high self-esteem was as helpful as many people seem to think it is
Baumeister and colleagues found that people with high self-esteem sometimes delude themselves
Todd Heatherton and Kathleen Vohs (2000) found that when people with extremely high self-esteem were forced to fail on a difficult task in front of a partner, they responded by acting more unfriendly, rudely, and arrogantly than did those with lower self-esteem
Despite the many positive variables that relate to high self-esteem, Baumeister and his colleagues found little evidence that high self-esteem caused these positive outcomes