In the third stanza, there is a conceit (extended metaphor) of her past city as a lover.
Rumens paints archetypal images of romance through phrases such as:
"it lies down in front of me"
"I comb its hair"
"my city takes me dancing"
It is so powerful, it has almost became personified in her mind.
The transitions in language shift her city from being passive, to being active.
It now "takes... [her] dancing" suggesting that she transitions into a position of comparativeweakness within her new city she uses her old city as a source of support.