communication is about more than just exchanging information, it's about understand the emotion and intention behind the information
the left side of the brain contains the primary processing centers for both speech comprehension and emotions. it also controls the right side of the ear
by increasing the muscle tone of the tiny middle ear muscles (the smallest in the body), youll be able to detect higher frequencies of human speech. you can exercise this by singing, playing wind instruments, listening to higher frequencies classical symphonies
WAYS TO BE AN ATTENTIVE LISTENER
closely observe the speaker
make sure that your ears are in good condition
minimize distractions and redirect the conversation to all concern
exhibit gestures to imply interest (ex. nodding, "yes", "uh huh")
dont be judgemental
always consider feedbacks
hear the emotion behind words by exercising your middle ear muscles
READING NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
be aware of individual differences
look at nonverbal communication signals as a group
DELIVERY OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
use of nonverbal signals to match up your words
give contextual signals
use body language to convey positive feelings
HOW TO STAY CALM DESPITE PRESSURE
compose self before speaking
organize your thoughts
share ideas one by one
soeak clearly
summarize ideas before stopping
STRESS RELIEVERS FOR SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION
be sure to feel that you are stressed
pause to relax
be sensible to your ideas (to relieve stress: sight, sound, touch, taste, smell)
insert humor if possible
be willing to compromise
agree to disagree
this term refers to expressing honestly and openly while standi ng up for yourself and being respectful