until the 18th century children were seen as extra workers among w.classes. Among rich families, boys= there to inherit titles and land, girls= married off for family alliances.
toxic childhood- children are now given more freedom in deciding what they would like to do. However, led to children eating more junk and spending more time and devices thus showing the have more power (negatively).
argue that women feel responsible for their partners parenting as well as their own. They are not just concerned with whether they are a good mother but also if their partner is a good father.
attacked the idea of "monomaternalism" (the idea that children only have 1 mother) arguing that due to more children living in same sex or reconstituted families they often have more than one mother figure,
Found that many fathers emphasised the need to spend time with children but some felt pressure due to long work hours and felt they couldn't spend enough time with children.
time budget diaries- on average fathers spend 7x more time with children than their own fathers did 40 years ago- however, this was still only 35 minutes per day for working fathers.
Found that 71% of families in which the mothers work or are in education receive some level of childcare from grandparents. 35% rely on grandparents as the main provider of childcare.
Found that grandparents spoke positively about their role within children's lives and were happy to help with childcare. Likewise, children felt they could share problems and concerns with their grandparents.
Found grandparents tend to be more flexible than parents and can fill in the gaps between formal childcare and parental care. They will also look after children when they are sick and cannot go to nursery.