What are the messages of the poem?
1st —> that love hurts and you have to be ready to accept this. As the idea that woman who lead men on are cruel to do so as they know it will make them suffer.
2nd —> someone without a lover can be likened to a lost man in the woods just before winter, being without purpose.
3rd —> love is temporary, and eventually it will leave and you have to live with that.