summer represents their finest days, whereas the arrival of autumn has negative connotations
misogynistic view - once women have had children they are past their prime - devoid of any purpose as an individual
"Before them"
from 'behind' to 'before' highlights the separation between women and identity as lovers
prepositional phrase
lack of autonomy
life before marriage
'unripe acorns'
metaphor for life
happy/free/content/new/fragile/naive
small living things dependent on their host
metaphor for children - unaware of what life is like - no experience
context
Philip Larkin’s poetry celebrates the ordinary details of day to day life
Larkin never married, had children or even left the UK in his whole life
structure
The first stanza deals with Larkin's rather cynical view of marriage and deals with the idea that the young mothers are isolated. Larkin's use of language emphasis the recurring theme of emptiness within the young mothers and how regimented their lives have become
Our Wedding, lying near the television
implies their love has become something ordinary and neglected
speaker uses domestic imagery to show how relationships are unappreciated
a persons wedding day is usually one of the best days of their lives, but the fact that their memories are "lying" by something as ordinary as 'the television', implies that women's priorities have changed