worked as a psychiatrist treating emotionally disturbed children
observed a number of people who had experienced earl separations from family - maternaldeprivation
suggested we need a warm, intimate and continuous relationship with the mother
bowlby's attachment theory
attachment is adaptive and innate
we have an innate drive to be attached for longtermbenefits
attachment increasessurvival and chances of reproduction
attachment and imprinting ensure we are protected and have a source of food
monotropy
a unique and monotropic relationship with a mother figure is of the highest importance
2 laws: law of continuity - the more constant and predictable a child's care the better quality of attachment; law of accumulatedseparation - the effects of every instance of separation from from the mother add up so it's better to have no separation
primary caregiver is a secure base from which the child can explore the world and then is a safe haven they can return to
socialreleasers
babies are born with a set of innatesocialreleasers
these facilitate bonding by encouraging and activating adult attention (e.g amiling, cooing and crying)
reciprocal process - mother and baby have an innate predisposition to become attached and the social releasers trigger the caregiver response
critical period
around 2 years - infant attachment system is active
if no attachment is formed in this time, a child will struggle to form one later on
internalworkingmodel
a mentalrepresentation of the child's first attachment - a blueprint for further relationships
develops a model and serves as a template for emotional relationships and what to expect
poor treatment in childhood leads to poorexpectations about how they should be treated or treat others
parents base their parenting on their own experience of being parented (negative childhood -> negative parent)