women and men contribution the society + spartan laws
laws were designed to produce elite soldiers that would enable sparta to maintain and acheive military dominance
women didnt go to war but played a vital role in ensuring the sucess of milatrian dominance as laws governing the education of girls were intended to help girls produce healthy children + encourage men to excel in their training
athenians often made fun of spartan women but they were proud of themselves
spartan women were figures of fun
aristophanes an athenina playwright writes about lysistrata who introudeces lampito a sparta girl which he views as the opposite of femininity which shows the difference in views
"a spartan girl couldn't grow up modest if she wanted to- they go out of the house with bare thighs and loose clothes to run races against young men - intolerable behaviour"
boys and girls had plenty of time to interact with each other - they were in full view of each other and girls were encouraged to heckle lazy boys in training and to praise others to motivate the other boys
it's unlikely the bride would be a complete stranger to the groom - parents would set up the marriage and help arrange a suitable match
the bride would cut her hair short and wear mens clothing and sandals then wait on the floor of a dark room whilst the groom was having dinner in the syssition and then go to bed in his military barracks
he would sneak out at night to avoid being caught and would go to the brides house and carry her to bed = consummates the marriage