Signs

• What does comfortable pace look like in a relationship?

  The relationship moves at a speed that feels enjoyable for each person
• What does honesty look like in a relationship?

  You can be truthful and candid without fearing how the other person will respond.
• What does respect look like in a relationship?

  You value one another's beliefs and opinions, and love one another for who you are as a person.
• What does kindness look like in a relationship?

  You are caring and empathetic to one another, and provide comfort and support.
• What does healthy conflict look like in a relationship?

  Openly and respectfully discussing issues and confronting disagreements non-judgmentally.
• What does trust look like in a relationship?

  Confidence that your partner won't do anything to hurt you or ruin the relationship
• What does independence look like in a relationship?

  You have space to be yourself outside of the relationship.
• What does equality look like in a relationship?

  The relationship feels balanced and everyone puts the same effort into the success of the relationship.
• What does taking responsibility look like in a relationship?

  Owning your own actions and words.
• What does fun look like in a relationship?

  You enjoy spending time together and bring out the best in each other.
• What does intensity look like in a relationship?

  When someone expressed very extreme feelings and over the top behavior that feels overwhelming.
• What does manipulation look like in a relationship?

  When someone tries to control your decisions, actions, or emotions.
• What does sabotage look like in a relationship?

  When someone purposely ruins your reputation, achievements, or success.
• What does guilting look like in a relationship?

  When someone makes you feel responsible for their actions or makes you feel like it's your job to keep them happy.
• What does deflecting responsibility look like in a relationship?

  When someone repeatedly makes excuses for their unhealthy behavior.
• What does possessiveness look like in a relationship?

  When someone is jealous to a point where they try to control who you spend time with and what you do.
• What does isolation look like in a relationship?

  When someone keeps you away from friends, family, or other people.
• What does belittling look like in a relationship?

  When someone does and says things to make you feel bad about yourself.
• What does volatility look like in a relationship?

  When someone has a really strong, uncontrollable reaction that makes you feel scared, confused, or intimidated.
• What does Betrayal look like in a relationship?

  When someone is disloyal or acts in an intentionally dishonest way.
• A relationship is unhealthy when it is based off of what?

  Power and control.