remaining 35% split into over(guilty and uncomfortable) /under benifited (lowest, feeling angru resentful and deprives)
Equity theory proposes the winning formula of fairness in relationships: one partner’s benefits minus their costs, should equal another partner’s benefits minus their costs.
If one partner perceives a relationship as unfair, they are going to be dissatisfied with it regardless of whether they are over-benefitting or under-benefitting.
According to the Equity Theory, a person who gets more benefits out of relationships than they put in will feel guilt and shame,
those who think they put a lot in but get very little back will be angry and resentful. The longer this feeling of unfairness (lack of equity) goes on, the more likely a couple is to break up.
perceptionofequity:
changes over time.
many people to put more than they receive at the beginning of a relationship, if too long, it will lead to dissatisfaction.