On the surface of all cells are chemical markers (e.g proteins) called antigens. Each antigen has its own unique shape. The more closely related 2 individuals are, the more antigens they have in common. Your body recognises the antigens on your cells as your own (self); anything with diff antigens to you (non-self) stimulates an immune response. In an immune response, your body will recognise the antigen as foreign (therefore bad) and will attack it