how household tasks are divided between the family\
in the uk today men are doing more however there is still gender stereotypes reinforced
EQUAL IN RELATIONSHIPS
symmetrical family by young and willmott means couples share domestic tasks as women are more in paid work so men help more
HOWEVERfeministoakley says just doing one chore does not mean they help out, only help when a woman is there - reluctant due to stereotype
EQUAL IN RELATIONSHIPS
commercialisation of housework eg dishwashers made it easier to do and since dual earner is common they can afford these services - 'death of traditional housewife'
HOWEVER, social class differences - working class have unequal domestic division
EQUAL IN RELATIONSHIPS
childcare with dads being more active in childs life as women work - 'new man' led to gender equality in childcare
HOWEVER, lockdown mums spent more time caring for children than dad - focus of less enjoyable tasks
UNEQUAL IN RELATIONSHIPS
women face a dual burden doing housework, caring for children and paid work due to gender stereotypes
HOWEVER, young and willmott says symmetrical family is more common now
UNEQUAL IN RELATIONSHIPS
women do emotion work like 'labour of love' for family members whereas men dont so have a burden to fix everyones problems
HOWEVER, emotion work is often overlooked and took for granted
UNEQUAL IN RELATIONSHIPS
childcare - dads still do not do equal even with law changes only a few take primary responsibility 'new man' is only a minority
HOWEVER, in lockdown more dads spent time with children