Hardy cherished growing up in a rural community, attending seasonal occupations and festivals, listening to tale-telling and music-making of parents, relatives, and friends
Exposed to the exigencies of rural poverty as a child - saw it in his neighbors and friends
At fifteen, he became apprenticed to John Hicks, a builder in Dorchester
First experienced formal schooling at the newly-opened village school at age 8 but got excellent teaching between 9-14 by schools conducted by Isaac Glandfield Last in nearby Dorchester
Moved to London aged 21 as an assistant to architect Arthur Bloomfield.
Commit full time to literature in summer of 1872
Expressed remorse for having assisted in some of the radical construction of ancient structures typically practiced by the Victoria church
Met Emma Gifford in March 1870, married in 1874, despite the wishes of both their families
February 1896 Emma wrote to his sister Mary, accusing her of trying to create divisions
'You are a witch like creature'
Emma and Hardy spent 20 months in small Dorset town of Sturminster Newton - seemed to be the marriage's happiest time.
Moved into Max Gate in 1885 - villa style house designer by Hardy, built by his father and brother in Dorchester
Hardy had a new middle-class status in Dorchester, emphasized by his position as a magistrate. Challenged by locals due to childhood.
Emma felt a sense of personal ostracism in Dorchester, intensified by the open malevolent opposition of Hardy's family. Hardy felt somewhat isolated from Dorchester and was largely ignored by the upper-class families there.
Met Florence Henniker in 1893, an aspiring novelist in her own right, well-connected, happily married. Relationship acknowledged a lack of a sexual dimension.
Met Florence Dugdale in 1905, a writer and schoolteacher, who he later married in February 1914. No evidence of adultery. She was mid-twenties, he was 65.
Developed an infatuation in his mid-eighties with Gertrude Bugler, a young beautiful actress from Dorset, who played leading roles (including Tess) in local dramatizations of his novels