Identification is when the person possesses the characteristics and attributes that they see as rewarding. These tend to be from significant others.
Vicarious reinforcement is when a child observes to behaviour of others and learn the consequence of behaviour this is linked to observational learning.
Bandura, states people are not just shaped by environmental but also self direct their behaviour called environmental determinism.
Environmental determinism
So once children have internalised behaviours, they make decisions about their own gender behaviours free from the need to be reinforced or punished externally.
Direct tuition is landing through explicit instructions about appropriate gender behaviour through telling and showing.
Direct tuition occurs when a child acquires linguistic skills and serves to inform children about how they should behave. It is through differential reinforcement that a child acquires gender identity.