Although it is encouraged that the two parties will be in the same room together with the mediator, if the parties are unwilling to meet face-to-face then the mediator can speak to them independently in separate rooms. The mediator can support the parties define issues and act as a facilitator, but the mediator must remain neutral and not act as an advisor or give their opinion. The parties themselves must find a solution to the dispute themselves. Settlement cannot be forced upon them.