irrational thoughts that can influence your emotions
magnification and minimization
exaggerating or minimizing the importance of events (ex: one might believe their own achievements are unimportant or that their mistakes are excessively important)
catastrophizing
seeing only the worst possible outcomes of a situation
overgeneralization
making broad interpretations from a single or few events (ex: "I felt awkward during my job interview. I am ALWAYS so awkward."
magical thinking
the belief that acts will influence unrelated situations. (ex: "I am a good person--bad things shouldn't happen to me.")
personalization
the belief that one is responsible for events outside of their own control. (ex: "My mom is always upset. She would be fine if I did more to help her.")
jumping to conclusions
Interpreting the meaning of a situation with little or no evidence
mind reading
interpreting the thoughts and beliefs of others without adequate evidence. (ex: "She would not go on a date with me. She probably thinks I'm ugly.")
fortune telling
the expectation that a situation will turn out badly without adequateevidence
emotional reasoning
the assumption that emotions reflect the way things really are. (ex: "I feel like a bad friend, therefore I must be a bad friend."
disqualifying the positive
recognizing only the negative aspects of a situation while ignoring the positive. (ex: one might receive many compliments on an evaluation, but focus on the single piece of negative feedback)
"Should" statements

the belief that things should be a certain way. (ex: "I should always be friendly.")
all-or-nothing thinking

thinking in absolutes such as "always", "never", or "every". (ex: "I NEVER do a good enough job on anything.")