found that being popular was crucial to the girls identity and found they could not decide between which identity to have
the idealised feminine identity - showing loyalty to the female peer group, being non competitive and getting along with everybody in the friendship culture
a sexualised identity - involved competing for boys in the dating culture
tells us that girls struggle to choose an identity as they cared a lot about being popular
overview
Pupils' school experiences may reinforce their gender and sexual identities
Connell1995 - argues that school reproduces 'hegemonic masculinity'-the dominance of heterosexual masculine identity and subordination of female and gay identities
Double standards
Lees1993 identifies a double standard of sexual morality in which boys boast about their own sexual exploits but call a girl a 'slag' if she doesnt have a steady boyfriend or if she dresses and speaks in a certain way
sexual conquest is approved of and given status by male peers and ignored by male teachers but 'promiscuity' among girls attracts negative labels
feminists argue that the double standards are an example of a patriarchal ideology that justifies male power and devalues women
double standards act as a form of social control to reproduce patriarchy-male domination and female subordination
verbal abuse
one of the way in which dominant gender and sexual identities are reinforced
boys use name-calling puts girls down if they behave in certain ways
Lees 1986 - found that boys called girls 'slags' if they appeared to be sexually available and 'drags' if they didnt
Paechter sees name calling as helping to shape gender identity and maintain male power
the use of negative labels such as 'gay' and 'lezzie' are ways in which pupils police each others sexual identities
the male gaze
The visual aspect in the way pupils control each other's identities
Mac an Ghaill - this is the male gaze - how male teachers/pupils look at girls, see them as sexual objects and make judgements about their appearance
see the male gaze as a form of surveillance where dominant heterosexualmasculinity is reinforced and femininity is devalued
This is one way boys reinforce their masculinity, bragging about sexual conquests and telling stories if they don't, they risk being labelled as gay
male peer groups
male peer groups also use verbal abuse to reinforce their definitions of masculinity
e.g. boys in anti-school subcultures often accuse boys who want to do well in school as being gay
Working-class boys 'macho lads' were dismissive of other working class boys who worked hard so called them 'dickhead achievers'
female peer groups: policing identity
Working-classgirls gain symbolic capital by performing a hyper-heterosexual identity
Female peers police this identity and girls risk being called a "tramp" if they fail to conform
Working-class girls faced a tension between an idealised feminine identity (loyalty to the peer group) and a sexualised identity (competing for boys)
'Slut shaming' and 'frigid shaming' are social control labels with which they police each other's identities
teachers and discipline
Haywood and Mac an Ghaill 1996 found that male teachers tell off boys for acting 'like girls' and tease them for getting lower marks in tests than girls
Teachers would also ignore boys verbally abusing girls, or would blame the girls for it
Askew & Ross (1988) - this shows how male teacher's behaviour subtly reinforces messages about gender